Jay Clapp Photography: How a Photographer Captured His Own Marriage Proposal

Please note this post was not created by Jay Clapp Photography but by Noam Galai

Couples spend a lot of time, effort and money to make sure their wedding day will be captured the best way possible – after all it’s one of the most important days in their lives. But what about another major life event, like the proposal itself? Most times, unless it’s meant to be a viral proposal, the proposer is not thinking of documenting it and the moment will never be shared or shown to family and friends. Wedding photographer Richard B Flores proposed earlier this week, and he knew he wanted to have this memory documented forever.e did it for himself, for his future wife, for the family and for their friends. This is how he did it.

FS: Why did you choose documenting the proposal yourself?

Richard: “This past weekend I asked my partner to marry me. After weeks of planning, the time had come to decide how I was going to capture the moment. Unfortunately some of my colleague photographers were unavailable and so the thought of doing it myself crossed my mind. I felt ready for the challenge: photographing my own proposal! (As if it wasn’t enough to plan for the actual proposal, I now had to plan on how to capture it.) One way or another, I couldn’t miss out on the opportunity to capture this special moment in our lives. “

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FS: What equipment you chose to use for this task?

Richard: “To start, I needed to find something that would trigger my camera wirelessly and that was reliable and fast. Fortunately one of my buddies let me borrow his Vello IR-C1 Infrared Remote Control which he raved about. I picked it up and tested it by enabling the wireless option on the 5D Mark III. It worked perfectly and shot as fast as you can press the shutter button on the remote. Next, I decided to use a tripod to get my camera ready for the big moment. It isn’t rare for me to carry a tripod and camera with me whenever I go into the city, so she wouldn’t have any suspicions.”

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“Finally, choosing a lens was very important. I wanted something that would allow me to capture as much light as possible since it would probably be night out and I didn’t want to sacrifice shutter speed or depth of field. I also wanted something that wasn’t going to be huge and something that was wide enough for safety. So I decided to use a 35mm f/1.4. The most important factor of this all was 1) using a DSLR of course, and 2) using a remote to trigger the camera. So I tested the remote quite a few times before the day of the proposal. I tested it indoors, outdoors, and at variable distances and it never failed.”

FS: How did you manage to set up the camera without making her suspect?

Richard: “Using the excuse that I wanted to test this “cool little remote my friend had given me,” I suggested we take a walk through the park. We walked in and I was looking for a nice little quiet spot that had some sort of lighting. There were a few light posts so it wasn’t pitch black but still a little dark. I found the perfect walkway and stopped there and got my camera all set up. After taking a few photos of the walkway itself and showing her “how cool it looked” LOL, I told her to stand in the photo. This is when I got my camera settings all ready. I had an f/1.4 lens and I wanted a shallow depth of field so it would look at least a bit interesting. I set my aperture to 2.0 which was safe enough for me just in case she moved. I bumped my ISO to 5000 which would help out a lot since it was dark and thankfully the 5D Mark III can handle high ISO. And lastly my shutter was set to 1/40 sec. This was fast enough for my lens and so that my shot would have the least amount of motion blur. I pre-focused on the camera and was all set.

Once my camera was all set, I walked into the shot a few times to get some “test” shots and waited for some people to pass us by to steal a moment alone. Once everything aligned perfectly, I lowered myself down onto one knee, all while aiming the remote at the camera, to ask the her to marry me. At that moment I wasn’t even thinking about the camera taking photos and just trusted that it was working. Thankfully, after all was said and done, the moment was captured perfectly and I couldn’t have asked for anything better.”

FS: Why it was important for you to document the proposal? What was the reaction to the results by friends and family?

Richard: After having photographed numerous proposals, engagements and weddings; for the first time in our lives, my fiancé and I had the opportunity to experience this special moment for ourselves. The proposal is where all of the wedding stages begin and I want to be able to look back at this moment and tell my family how amazing we felt that day. All of our friends and family were going crazy about the photos and commented on how my fiancé’s reaction was captured perfectly. This is exactly what I wanted. I want us to be able to look back at these photos and feel exactly what we felt in that moment in time. The excitement, the surprise, the nervousness and the love we have for each other.

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